81 : Our words are powerful: A candid convo with my teenage son {who GETS it}
Y'all! I believe that THIS can change everything about parenting. About coaching. About teaching. About how we speak to our children. It can change everything--IF you LET it.
Do you think that what you say to yourself matters? What about your kids? What about others on your team? What about your family? Your friends?
In this candid conversation with my 14-year-old son, Kaizer, we chat about what he said to his 16-year-old brother before the game & the learning moment that came from that…& this podcast followed (after slight coercion 😉).
Y’all…this is uncut. Raw. Real. You’re going to see/hear a teenager who reluctantly (or not so much) sat with his mama to talk about what he knows to be true…even though he acts like he is annoyed!
You’re gonna hear my 9-year-old son Kash with his heavy breathing & chatter at the beginning of the episode (before I kick him out of the office! 😆) & much, much more...btw, Kai thinks that no one is going to listen to this episode anyway, so let’s prove him WRONG!
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In this episode I discuss:
[1:20] What modeling this work looks like in our home
[1:43] Teenagers are trying to figure out who they are in this world 😳
[3:33] I chose to leave all the shtuff…because this is real life, y’all
[3:48] Kaizer’s advice to his brother before the first state game
[4:55] Where his mindset had been
[5:08] Kash gets booted from the audience…also real life 😆
[7:40] A different look at this
[8:58] Did he glare at me? 🥴…check out our YouTube channel & lmk
[10:30] Where his focus was…& how he can shift it
[12:20] A well-meaning perspective that can be worded better
[13:13] We speak lies over our lives alllllll of the time
[16:05] A lot of parents use this version of language in their parenting
[17:35] “no one’s gonna watch this that I know” ~Kaizer Padriac, age 14
[18:53] Speak, “stuff that you want to happen” ~Kaizer Padriac, age 14
[19:43] This mama is sitting in gratitude for this moment & for this work & for these lessons
[21:27] This. Can. Change. Everything. If you let it.
[21:53] Let’s prove him wrong…send it 💌💌💌
Your Journal prompts:
Where are you well-meaning, but your focus could be better?
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